| Location | Edinburgh |
| Age | 20 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 30/07/1986 |
| Date of Death | 02/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 2,593 since 02/02/2008 |
| Creator |
hi gary is my son who was tragically killed in a car crash, he was driving his friend back to the
barracks after a party, he shouldnt have been driving but the female maryanne whos car it was ,was
so drunk she couldnt walk, gary was being gary and helping his mate ,they stopped the car at tesco
car park for a cuddle so gary took the car for a run so he wasnt being pervy, at this time he was
killed .The so called female didnt even phone me to see if he was home or to see if he was ok ,she
just went on about he every day life . well myself and my daughter dont get to have an everyday life
because of you i hope that you enjoyed yourself we are the ones paying for it , i didnt even get an
apology from her she probably sleeps well at nite i havent for so long now one day i might be able
to forgive her but i doubt it very much . Gary was in the army and died just 18 days before his
passing out parade. He was a very happy man ,always smiling and always playing practical jokes
espesially on me .Gary was one of those people that would just make you laugh he always had a gift
of laughter, gary made a room shine when he walked in , before gary joined the army he was in the
army cadet force as well .H e done 5 years at this then started to train the younger cadets.Gary
loved the army and all about it he was always there to help like the nite they all got locked out of
dalmeny street and him and willie climbed onto the roof to get in and open the door , only thing was
a neighbour phoned the police before they got to th stairs there was police and dogs every where
they thought that they were burgulars. He achieved so much in his short life and made us very proud
of him.Family meant everything to gary especially his big sister linda. Garys dad was diagnosed with
cancer in the november ater he died just 6 weeks later ,unfortunatlly he died in january 2008.We all
miss the two of them very much and love them more everyday .Gary you always made me so proud of
you, and you still make me smile, so god bless you and i will see you again soon take care of dad
for me and always be your sisters guardian angel xxxx mum
A letter from heaven
To my dearest family,
some things id like to say,
but first of all to let you know
that i arrived okay!
Im writing this from heaven
here i dwell with God above,
here thereis no sadness
just eternal love.
Please do not be sad
because im out of sight
remember im there with you
every morning ,noon,and night
The day i had to leave you
when my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me
And said "i welcome you"
Its good to have you back again
you were missed when you were gone
As for your dearest family
they,ll be here later on.
God gave me a list of things to do
And formost was to look over and care for you
Theres rocky roads ahead of you
and many hills to climb
but together we can do it
taking a day at a time.
When your walking down the street
and youv got me on your mind
im walking in your footsteps
half a step behind
And when its time for you to go
for your body to be free
remember your not going....
your coming to be with me!
just thoughts
just me again son ,been one of those days when all i have done is cry. i have been reading some of your letters from catterick sometimes it helps me but not today ,i cant stop thinking about you and dad how am i managing without you two . poor linda she goes day by day but you can see the pain in her eyes, joke ou need to help her i know you can i will know when you do and will be waiting so till next time all my love always xxxxx
angelversary
hi gary,cant believe its been two years today since you where taken away from us,seems like yesterday,you are missed so very much.I know you will be looking after your mum but just wanted to say keep an eye on her eh,anyway son just wanted to say i love and miss you so much give papa all my love and say a big hi to your dad from me,love and miss you forever,auntie carol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2 years
gary i cant believe i have went two years without seeing you .it was the last time i saw you alive you were going back to catterick today dad was taking you down with linda in the car ,if i had known then i would never see you alive again there are so many thing i would have said and done ,held you longer ,told you how much i wold miss you i would have wrapped you up in cotton wool so nothing could happen to you ,but that doesnt happen in the real world ,so i just have to tell you here. There is not a day goes by that i dont think of you and shed a tear my heart breaks every time i think of you and i pray every day that another day has passed and brings me closer to you so till then take all my love and know that you are very sorelly missed by so many people .I LOVE YOU SON XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
baby
hey gary just to let you know that jamie and angie had a wee boy on monday the 30 june i was with them at the hospital and they have named him Kian Gary Carris what an honour eh wish you could be here to see him he is gorgeous so make sure you look down on him with all your love as i know you would xxxxxxxx
my son
just want you to know you were my baby ,a mothers love is so stong that no one can break , i have always had a bond that i cannot explain,i have your sister now and all my love is great,itry to be so strong .but inside my heart just breaks,you are my angel up above , you are the wings that fly above ,i think of you every day ,i sit and pray and pray, if there is a god that loves me so make my love grow and grow . your sisters heart aches in pain make her see the light again so when she thinks of you above , she thinks of angels up above so until we meet again god love you gary my best friend ..... to my son i miss you more every day take care of dad and meg this day xxxx
gary
those we love dont go away they walk beside us every day love and miss you forever gary xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶_¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶_¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶__¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶_¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶¶
The moment that you died
my heart was torn in two,
one side filled with heartache
the other died with you,
I often lay awake at night
when the world is fast asleep,
and take a walk down memory lane
with tears upon my cheeks,
remembering you is easy
I do it everyday
but missing you is heartache
that never goes away,
I hold you tightly within my heart
and there you will remain...
Create an ever lasting memorial for your loved ones.
Start here »
Using the options below you can add this memorial to your personal garden.
| I am Gary's ... | |
| Add to Garden: | |
| Notifications: | Text Message |
There have been 198 candles lit for Gary.
