| Location | Edinburgh |
| Age | 20 years |
| Cause of Death | Road Traffic Collision |
| Date of Birth | 30/07/1986 |
| Date of Death | 02/09/2006 |
| Visitors | 4,403 since 02/02/2008 |
| Creator |
hi gary is my son who was tragically killed in a car crash, he was driving his friend back to the barracks after a party, he shouldnt have been driving but the female maryanne whos car it was ,was so drunk she couldnt walk, gary was being gary and helping his mate ,they stopped the car at tesco car park for a cuddle so gary took the car for a run so he wasnt being pervy, at this time he was killed .The so called female didnt even phone me to see if he was home or to see if he was ok ,she just went on about he every day life . well myself and my daughter dont get to have an everyday life because of you i hope that you enjoyed yourself we are the ones paying for it , i didnt even get an apology from her she probably sleeps well at nite i havent for so long now one day i might be able to forgive her but i doubt it very much . Gary was in the army and died just 18 days before his passing out parade. He was a very happy man ,always smiling and always playing practical jokes espesially on me .Gary was one of those people that would just make you laugh he always had a gift of laughter, gary made a room shine when he walked in , before gary joined the army he was in the army cadet force as well .H e done 5 years at this then started to train the younger cadets.Gary loved the army and all about it he was always there to help like the nite they all got locked out of dalmeny street and him and willie climbed onto the roof to get in and open the door , only thing was a neighbour phoned the police before they got to th stairs there was police and dogs every where they thought that they were burgulars. He achieved so much in his short life and made us very proud of him.Family meant everything to gary especially his big sister linda. Garys dad was diagnosed with cancer in the november ater he died just 6 weeks later ,unfortunatlly he died in january 2008.We all miss the two of them very much and love them more everyday .Gary you always made me so proud of you, and you still make me smile, so god bless you and i will see you again soon take care of dad for me and always be your sisters guardian angel xxxx mum
christmas
hi son hows you , i know its been a while but everytime i came on it made me sad to see so much lies,so i am here to send you love at christmas. i have had the most amazing year with craig hes so good but you know that .linda is doing fantastic im so proud of her. joseph is doing great to her and him get on great .its good to see that there is a god up there i was beginning to wonder but got an email tonite that made my christmas and you know what it was im so glad xxx the only thing i could ask for is that you were here to spend christmas with us .so take care of all my loved ones up there give them my christmas love and a good shake of the hand from craig we love you all MERRY CHRISTMAS XXXX
thanks
hi son just saying thanks for being there yesterday i knew you were with me . we got the house so now i can finally settle a new house 3 bedrooms , garden for the cats and a garage for my new car .craig and i are so happy and know you and dad were with us . linda is over the moon as well she thinks shes getting the garage for her car ha ha she will hae to beat me xxxx
hi
hi jock just wanted you to know im thinking of you no matter what they all think trouble is they know you were the best guy and they dont like it . well i had a great day out with linda yesterday and craig in edinburgh. we done loads of shopping and visited a few friends , hope you and dad like the flowers we left for you. shows how much they care they havent even been to see you but i dont care your my son and i will visit you again soon son .its funny coming to edinburgh now its not what i call home never was i know that now .will speak to you soon when lynne is here .take care and happy valentines day for tomorrow xxxxx
hi
hi son , hope that you are keeping out of bother up there . just want you to know that im ok , i know your angry at what has been said about me and written but remember they have been like that all their lives and a leopard never changes its spots as they say .anyway its like water of a ducks back to me and if they are doing this to me then they are leaving someone else alone .you and i both know that its all lies what she said about you going to the army i know how much you loved me .i miss you so much son it still hurts everyday as much as it did the day you died .craig has been really great supporting me so you and dad can relax knowing that im being looked after by a great guy .iv been lucky to have so many great guys in my life you , your dad , pappa, and now craig and joe .need you to watch over joe for me when he goes on tour and look after willie he goes away again soon .he got his promotion and said that he done it for the 2 of you im so proud of him .anyway better go its getting late . love you always everyday xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
to a special dadx
dad just to say you are missed more than words can say youre always in my mind love and miss you dad xxx
for my dad
hi dad just had to write to you to let you know how much you are truelly loved .other people are saying that things are being written and that you would be angry , well all i can see that is making people angry is what they are writing themselves . i know that you will be happy for me and proud of what iv done in the last year you know how hard it has been for me .i can truelly say im happy very very happy and if some people dont like that then tough , yes you will be angry ,they are going on about a chain being broken well it will always be broken as there are ones in this family that will never be together again even in death . im glad you and mum brought me into this life i just wish we had a better , nicer , loving family but you cant get everything can you . anyway look after frank and gary for me as i know you always do and keep looking over me and sending me your strength as you always do . you had 13 children not 1 or 2 or 3 so i hope you can forgive them when the time comes xxxx
a part of our life is over a part we will never forget theres a door in our hearts marked private thats were all our memorys are kept for dad gary frank xxxx
dad
another year nearly over it still seems like yeserday you were still here a flower may die the sun may set but a father like you ill never forgetyour name is precious it will never grow old its engraved in my heart in letters of gold (dad you were simply the best) love youalways and forever the chain will never be whole till you have mum by youre side then it will be complete xxxx
christmas message for my dad
hi dad, frank and gary and all my other loved ones . dad im leaving tributes and candles on here for you now i think you will know why .i miss you all everyday and wish i could have one more day with you all .anyway dad i hope that you are keeping them all on the straight and narrow up there . as you know i got married again in august to a great guy dad and i know you would have got on with him , even though hes a blue nose . he tells me every day how special i am to him .wish you were here to meet him ,craig knows a lot about you and has seen all your pics i have he sends his love to you all as well .at least i can put his name on this page eh.anyway 2 days left till christmas so hope you all have a great time i love and miss you all .your loving daughter michelle
christmas memories
hi jock that time of the year again , thinking of you a lot as always . remembering how you would pick up a pressie and know what it was before you even opened it up .your smiling face kept me going all the time .im doing really great since i got away from that other horrid lot of a family you would be proud of me .lindas coming for christmas i cant wait and craig has got me my ghds for christmas so alls good hes such a good man i wish you and dad could have met him.im sorry i wont be through to your grave but some nasty people have threatened me if i come through lol so best not eh ha ha . i am coming through after the year to visit so will be up with your flowers but i have got your pic up with your own candle to burn on christmas day and i will be thinking of you as well so look after every one up there for me and wish them a merry christmas xxxxx
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